Wednesday, September 21, 2016

Racism. Yes I'm White

It’s sad to say but racism has evolved. It is no longer the simple concept that you view a different race as inferior based on their skin color.  I fear that in today’s world it is more a misunderstanding of the opposite race’s culture that drives this new “racism”.  Some reading this may think that as semantics and that it is still a concept of finding yourself superior based on culture rather than race.  I would beg to argue because I believe if we simply understood each other then maybe this void could be closed and we can all coexist.   What I’m about to write are not my personal feelings toward black people. I know many black people and have high level of respect for most, if not all, of them.  These are simple theories that went through my head as viewpoints from a white person’s perspective.
New Racism is Fear Based
Much like the fear we have for terrorists after 9/11 and the many other bombing, we fear blacks for the same reason.  No not all blacks are violent. When I turn on the news what do I see? Blacks kill blacks in this city, that town, and so on.  Being a person who works and worships with black people I know there are many out there doing good works but somehow the news is not portraying that for the average white person. 
Media also likes to spend much time expounding on the lives of the stars when they go bad.  Ray Rice and Chris Brown are thrown in our faces while we neglect all the great things black celebrities are doing for communities everywhere.  We hear about Greg Hardy for weeks but don’t pay more than 10 minutes attention to the inner city public schools who are benefiting from the sports starts in that city.
Movies and rap music can also help lean toward the concept that blacks have a propensity for violence.  I think of early rap, since I don’t listen to secular any more, when I make that statement.  Songs like “F*** the Police” by NWA, Nelly singing about a “street sweeper”, plenty of references to guns in Tupac and Biggie songs, lead us to think that every black is a gangsta.  White people hear this and start to think that the whole black community is about drugs, guns, violence, and making that all mighty dollar by any means necessary. 
New Racism comes from Lack of Knowledge
If you were to check my Facebook friends list you would see many people of varied skin color. However, I would say that I’m not very knowledgeable in their cultures or lifestyles.  I would say that outside my own family, I hang out with one couple and they are white.  It would be easy for me to say that is because I work many hours a week, have 2 infants, and really no time for relationship maintenance so I stick with just one. Truth is I just don’t put forth the effort at this or any previous time.
I believe that many people assume that people who live in the “ghetto” or rough neighborhoods do so because they want to.  I’ve heard it said “If they don’t like it why don’t they get out?” The problem is that getting out or even getting slightly ahead is not that easy for people from lower economic standings. I would venture to guess that it is even harder for those of non-white skin color.  I’ve had the pleasure of working 80 hours a week and not being able to save anything up because bills are high and pay isn’t. 
Better yet I’ve also heard “why don’t they change the environment they live in” as if it is some easy thing to invest back into your city or hood.  I assume most people don’t want to live in run down duplexes, have cracked sidewalks, pot holes and side of the street parking. I would wager that even those in the city would love a house to call their own, a yard for their kids to play, and a garage to park their car.  Sadly that reality is a lot tougher to get when you have to climb a ladder that has greased rungs.    
A huge thing lately that contributes to fear, as well as lack of knowledge, is the protests by major sports players.  The kneeling during the national anthem was taken as a negative because they aren’t following the rule that you must stand. The raising of the fist is a sign of “black power” which is misinterpreted as “power over white people”.  I think it would be better if we used the term equality.  Women have used this for decades in search for their “power” or “voice”.  Blacks aren’t looking to make slaves out of the white folk, they are looking to be equal.  Blacks gaining more power does not mean they are lords over the whites but have the same privileges and chances as any white person.  We are not talking supremacy but equality.  Most whites don’t see this when they see the term “black power” or “black lives matter”. Rather than it sparking conversation it becomes a catalyst to disapprove of the movement as a whole. 


I write this in the short half hour I have for lunch and hope that it simply opens conversation.  I don’t see color, I have black, Asian, Hispanic, and white friends.  I do not ignore the fact that color exists though and would be open to learn more about the struggle that those individuals face on a daily.  I hope this can open honest dialogue and not spew hatred and cause a greater divide.  If it is not very clearly written I apologize but they were all thoughts swirling around in my head and I just had to write them down and did so in a half hour. Thank you for those of you who read it, and please feel free to message me or comment if you wish to discuss anything further.  Let’s learn how to love and not be so afraid. We don’t have to understand each other to realize we should all be treated the same.  

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